TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING + SEX COUNSELING
Reclaim Your Power, Confidence, and Pleasure Through Conscious Connection
At Wild Woman Wellness, we offer a bold, affirming space to explore your sexual self—without shame, without judgment, and without apology.
Our Transformational Coaching and Sex Counseling services are grounded in a trauma-informed belief that sexual wellness is whole-person wellness. We guide individuals, couples, and moresomes through a process of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment using the STARS Model—a framework designed to help you communicate your desires, boundaries, and values with clarity and confidence.
Whether you're healing from past experiences, navigating new relationship dynamics, or simply seeking more pleasure and presence, you’ll be met with care, respect, and tools for real growth.
Sex-Positive, Inclusive, and Affirming Support
Our approach embraces all sexual orientations, gender identities, relationship styles, and desires. Whether you're monogamous, non-monogamous, kinky, queer, questioning, or exploring something new—this is a space where your authentic self is welcome and celebrated.
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We work with:
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Individuals seeking deeper self-awareness, healing, or sexual confidence
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Women who feel disconnected from their pleasure or identity after childbirth, menopause, or trauma—ready to gently rediscover their spark in a safe, supportive space
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Couples looking to reconnect, explore, or improve communication
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Moresomes navigating polyamory, open relationships, or chosen family dynamics
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Anyone wanting to feel more sexually alive, emotionally connected, and self-assured
The STARS Model: A Framework for Transformational Conversations
S – Safety & Boundaries
Explore what safety looks and feels like for you. Learn how to set and honor clear physical and emotional boundaries.
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T – Turn-Ons & Desires
Discover what truly brings you pleasure—emotionally, mentally, and physically. Reconnect with what lights you up.
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A – Avoids & Hard No’s
Identify past wounds, unspoken limits, and what doesn’t serve you—so you can reclaim agency and self-trust.
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R – Relationship Intentions & Expectations
Clarify what you're looking for in connection, commitment, and intimacy. Get honest about what works for you.
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S – Sexual Health & Wellness
From STI prevention to hormone changes, we provide open, informed conversations that support your whole-body health.
What to Expect
We begin with deep, respectful conversation. No topic is off limits. Each session is tailored to your needs—whether emotional, relational, physical, or spiritual.
You can expect:
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A shame-free, trauma-informed environment
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Holistic, personalized coaching based on your goals
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Tools for better communication, deeper intimacy, and more embodied pleasure
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Somatic awareness practices to help you reconnect with your body’s wisdom
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Space to talk about anything—from kink and masturbation to relationship repair and desire mapping
The Wild Woman Wellness Difference
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Radically inclusive, sex-positive support
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Affirming care for LGBTQ+, kinky, and non-monogamous folks
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Somatic tools for healing and pleasure
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Rooted in the STARS Model for clear and compassionate communication
This is your invitation to reclaim your sexuality, your voice, and your wildness.
Book a session today and begin your journey toward deeper connection, confidence, and pleasure.
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Pricing
Packages are available, 6 session minimum.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the difference between sex therapy and transformational coaching?
While traditional sex therapy typically focuses on diagnosing and treating sexual dysfunction from a clinical perspective, our transformational coaching approach is more holistic and growth-oriented. We integrate somatic awareness, emotional intelligence, communication skills, and pleasure-focused practices to help you create lasting change. Dr. Dacker brings her medical expertise to these conversations while maintaining a coaching framework that emphasizes your innate wisdom and capacity for transformation.
Is this appropriate if I've experienced sexual trauma?
Yes. Our coaching is deeply trauma-informed and paced according to your comfort level. We create a container of safety first, ensuring you have complete agency throughout our work together. Many clients find that this approach helps them reclaim aspects of their sexuality that felt lost or damaged after traumatic experiences. We may also recommend complementary support, such as therapy, somatic experiencing, or other modalities that can work alongside our coaching.
Do I need to attend sessions with my partner(s)?
Not necessarily. Many individuals benefit from doing this work on their own first, especially if they're reconnecting with their own desires and boundaries. Couples and moresomes often find value in both individual and joint sessions. We can discuss what arrangement might serve you best during your initial consultation.
What if I don't know what I want sexually?
You're in good company! Many people come to coaching precisely because they feel disconnected from their desires or unsure about what brings them pleasure. The STARS Model provides a compassionate framework for exploration, helping you uncover what feels authentic for you without pressure or expectation. This journey of self-discovery is often the most rewarding part of our work together.
How does gender or sexual orientation affect the coaching approach?
Our coaching framework is inherently inclusive and adaptable to your unique experience. Whether you're straight, queer, nonbinary, transgender, or questioning, the STARS Model provides a structure that honors your specific needs and context. Dr. Dacker brings experience working with diverse identities and expressions, and approaches each person's journey with cultural humility and respect.
How many sessions will I need?
Transformation isn't a one-size-fits-all process. Some clients experience significant shifts after just 2-3 sessions, while others benefit from ongoing support over several months. After your initial consultation, we'll discuss a recommended timeline based on your goals. Many clients begin with a series of 4-6 sessions, then reassess their needs and progress.
What topics can we address in coaching?
Our transformational coaching can address a wide range of sexual and relational concerns, including but not limited to: desire discrepancies, communication challenges, body image and sexual confidence, pleasure exploration, navigating non-monogamy, sexual technique and skill-building, kink and BDSM education, reconnecting after betrayal, sexual empowerment after trauma, and navigating sex through life transitions like parenthood, menopause, or illness.